How Doctors Talk
19/06/2025 35:41
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Host: Rune Pedersen joined by Stefan Delatovic
Producers: Rune Pedersen at Onomato People, Stefan Delatovic
Writers: Rune Pedersen and Stefan Delatovic
Artwork: Wendy Tang
Post production and sound design: Dom Evans and James Coster at EARSAY
SBS Audio team: Joel Supple, Max Gosford, Bernadette Phương Nam Nguyễn
Guests: Dr.Sarah J. White, Director of Bedside Manners Pty Ltd. + Maria Dahm, Senior Lecturer at Deakin University.
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