Woman Says She Caught Her Boyfriend Using Her $80 Serum as Hand Cream. Then She Got a Lock
A Reddit user says she had no choice but to take action to stop her boyfriend from using her skincare products, which cost her about $300 a month
But afterwards she said that he downplayed the situation, calling her "selfish and petty"
Although the woman wasn't sure if she'd overreacted, fellow Redditors came to her defense — and warned her that the boyfriend's actions were giving "red flag" energyA woman says she asked her boyfriend to stop using her expensive skincare products — and when he didn't listen, she had no choice but to take action.
In an "Am I Overreacting" Reddit post, the woman, 28, wrote that it took her years of trial and error before finding a routine that worked for severe eczema. "The products are medical-grade and cost about $300/month," she wrote.
But, she added, even though her 30-year-old boyfriend has normal skin — and his own roster of drugstore products — he "keeps using my special creams."
To make matters worse, she noted that "he's going through my small, expensive tubes twice as fast, leaving me with flare-ups when I run out between shipments."
Despite asking her boyfriend to stop, however, the girlfriend claimed he told her "it's just lotion" and labeled her request as "ridiculous."
The final straw came when she caught her boyfriend using $80 facial serum as hand cream. After that, she says she 'put a lock' on her medicine cabinet.
No according to the Redditor, her boyfriend is calling her "selfish and petty, saying couples should share everything.'
'I wouldn't care if they were normal products, but this is medically necessary for me and financially unsustainable if we're both using them,' she continued, going on to wonder if maybe she overreacted.
But Reddit users came to her defense. 'I would be making him pay to replace them,' one commenter wrote. 'If all this seems excessive, it's because you're dealing with a manchild."
Another commenter said the boyfriend should be looking at her products as 'prescriptions' rather than 'products.'
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'The way he is acting makes it sound like this is a power play to him,' they added. 'He feels like he is entitled to everything, regardless of need.'
A third suggested the girl's boyfriend is 'projecting' his selfishness onto her. 'That's him showing no respect or care for you,' they wrote, calling the boyfriend's actions a 'red flag.'
The commenter also said the need to lock up the products is 'another red flag, indicating a lack of trust which will escalate.'
'Furthermore, his decision to prioritize himself by using your prescribed medication in the first place is an even bigger red flag to the point you need to reevaluate this relationship,' the commenter concluded.
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