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My teenage daughter talks in therapy speak all the time

My teenage daughter talks in therapy speak all the time

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Q. I'm struggling with how to parent my 17-year-old daughter. She's started accusing me of being 'toxic', 'emotionally manipulative' and even 'gaslighting' her. These are big words with big meanings and they come out in heated moments — when I ask about her plans, offer advice or challenge her on things like school or screen time.
I've always tried to be a loving, involved parent. We've had our clashes, like any mum and teenage daughter, but this feels different. The words she uses come straight from therapy speak online and it's as if she's diagnosing me with something every time we argue. I feel silenced; anything I say could be used against me. I've also become anxious about setting any boundaries with her, especially since a close friend of mine has been completely cut off by her daughter. I'm terrified the same thing could happen to me.
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