Mark Labbett says he 'couldn't wait to leave' a recent date because he didn't find the mystery woman 'attractive'
The Chase star, 59, known as The Beast, is taking part in E4's Celeb's Go Dating following his separation from ex-girlfriend Hayley Palmer, 44.
Mark dumped TV presenter Hayley in May 2024 in a 'three-minute' phone call, just days after their anniversary.
And speaking to BANG Showbiz at Celebs Go Dating launch party about his current dating life, Mark said: 'You never know who you're going to find, someone who you just get on with – that's the key thing.
'I won't say who, but there's been one situation I've met someone and I'm going, "I should find them really attractive", but instead I can't wait to get away.
Asked if the woman was a celebrity, Mark responded: 'No comment.'
Mark hopes to find his perfect match, with the help of the programme's dating agents, Paul Carrick Brunson, Anna Williamson and Dr. Tara Suwinyattichaiporn.
Ironically, Mark said the experience of doing the show has taught him not to seek 'perfection'.
He said: 'If you expect that from your partner, if she goes, "You don't do that", you can't get all stroppy.
'You can argue on the point of modern dating issues that you see someone who's this, this and this, and you go, reality check.'
He was married to his second cousin Katie Labbett, 32, from 2014 until 2020.
They welcomed their seven-year-old son Lawrence in 2018, but Katie and Mark split in 2020.
In 2020, Katie - who had been dating senior design engineer Scott Bate for 18 months at the time - and Mark split because their attempts at an open marriage failed.
The Beast also blamed other factors, including their 27-year age gap, the Covid-19 lockdown and his own mental health, for their eventual split.
After starting work on the show he went on to be in a several serious relationships. This included marrying his second cousin Katie Labbett, 32 (seen in 2017)
In 2024, Hayley and Mark separated - with Hayley claiming at the time he dumped her because he 'didn't want to divorce his ex-wife', but Mark later told The Sun newspaper their separation was because he 'got old'.
However, Mark - who had a 15-year age gap with Hayley - insisted to BANG Showbiz he does not have a 'bad word' to say about Katie or Hayley.
Asked if he thinks it is now better to share a similar age with someone, as opposed to having a big age gap like he did with Katie and Hayley, Mark said: 'What I would say is age is really important to some people and completely unimportant to others.
'And, ultimately, I think it's down to the individual relationship.
'I've dated women who are older than me, and I've got no problems with it.'
Celebs Go Dating 2025 starts August 11 at 9pm on E4.
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It's an organisation that traditionally says, 'You're a bloody doctor. Bloody get on with it.' And if you have to refer to your boss by their surname, it's very difficult to open up to them.' And this is dangerous? 'It is. Correct. There is a reason that the suicide rates in the healthcare professions are higher than average. I don't know what the reason quite is, but it's undeniable that there is one. And even if no one is interested in finding out what the reason is, surely everyone should be trying to support everyone more to make that graph turn a corner.' As well as Doctors in Distress, he works with the Laura Hyde Foundation, set up after the suicide of the nurse Laura Hyde in 2018. 'I was very low, but I never got to that place,' he says. 'But [the suicide rate] is one doctor every three weeks in the UK. I think one nurse or other healthcare professional every single week. Those numbers are unbearably high.' 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And there was some quite aggressive thing [Streeting] said about, you know, 'They're going to regret it if…' ' In fact he told them, 'If you go to war with us you'll lose.' • Adam Kay's diary of a new dad: this is going to… scream! 'They're not going to regret it. They're going to leave. You're going to regret it, because they've left. And then you'll be saying, 'But I've doubled all the medical school places.' But it takes four, five, six years to be a doctor, whichever route you take. That doesn't help you with the A&E consultant who has just left, who's 15 years further on.' In the end, the only cure for this particular physician who could not heal himself was not to emigrate but to leave the profession. It worked a treat. 'I've got a work-life balance. I don't have tragedy in my workplace. I have so much respect for the people who are still out there doing it.' His work-life imbalance as a doctor has recently been replaced by another equation: balancing his needs and those of his children, a boy and a girl born in the United States to two separate friends of theirs, but sharing a common egg donor. He shows me on his phone a picture of Ruby and Ziggy, now both around two and a half. They are, of course, adorable, but Ruby arrived five weeks early and weighed just 4lb 6oz and Kay missed her birth (Farrell just made it). 'I sort of slightly thought I was done with labour wards… But no, she's great. They're both great. I'm dead lucky. It recalibrates life in lots of ways, doesn't it? There are these people who are right now 30 miles away, 40 miles away, whatever it is, who are more important to me than me, and are distracting me the whole time, who didn't exist three years ago. You realise how selfish you were. Although selfish isn't necessarily a bad word. It's important to look after yourself.' And he did look after himself. By quitting, I mean. 'I did in the end, that's true. I wouldn't say I wouldn't change anything — I'd change absolutely loads. But I'm a very happy boy.' So if there is ever a saccharine, revisionist Hollywood movie of this caustic former doctor's eventful life, we can be certain it won't be as good as the telly version of This Is Going to Hurt. At least, however, it will be entitled to deliver an unexpectedly sappy and upbeat ending. n A Particularly Nasty Case by Adam Kay (Orion, £20) is published on August 28. To order a copy, go to or call 020 3176 2935. Free standard UK P&P on online orders over £25. Special discount available for Times+ members
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