Stacey Dooley: I wouldn't go to the police if I was raped
Stacey Dooley has said that she would not go the police if she was raped after losing confidence in the authorities.
The television presenter, 38, made the claim after following stories of women's experiences with the courts and investigators for a new BBC documentary filmed over three years.
In an interview with Radio Times, Dooley said: 'If somebody raped me, I don't think I would go to the police, which is so bleak and such a disappointing realisation. But in terms of what I've witnessed, I wouldn't feel confident.'
Her comments come in the lead-up to the release of Rape on Trial, which explores the challenges of reporting rape and covers the delays to court cases and waiting times for victims of alleged rape and sexual assault.
She said: 'With the women I spoke to, the concern was always: 'If I go to the police, will they believe me?'
'It's one of the few crimes where your credibility is immediately brought into question. The bravery it takes is unbelievable.'
Dooley inspired by Pelicot case
Dooley also addressed the extraordinary case of Gisèle Pelicot, who last year became a global icon in the campaign against sexual violence for her bravery in turning the tables on her tormentors after waiving her right to anonymity.
'Obviously, I think she's a f---ing powerhouse,' Dooley said, adding: 'But I wonder if even she really understands the magnitude of what she's done for other women.'
In December, Pelicot's former husband, Dominique, 72, was found guilty of drugging and raping his former wife, also 72, and for more than a decade soliciting men to assault her.
The grandmother of seven has since become a feminist icon for refusing to remain in the shadows during his trial, choosing instead to confront those who abused and raped her.
Dooley said that when filming Rape on Trial, during which she would hear the experiences of women reporting rape to the police, it would make her think: 'What would I do?'
The programme comes as it was revealed that rape charges are increasingly being dropped before reaching trial.
The Crown Prosecution Service discontinued 496 rape charges in the 12 months to July this year – more than three times the 157 dropped in the same period in 2019.
Rape prosecutions descrease
Data released in December show that the proportion of rape prosecutions being dropped rose from 9.3 per cent in 2022 to 12.8 per cent this year.
Dooley also spoke about another of her upcoming documentary shows, Meet the Shoplifters, in which she meets people who steal, as well as staff members dealing with the issue.
She admitted that she took items from shops when she was young, saying she 'perhaps tried to justify it in some way' when she was a teenager, but now does not understand how she could have behaved that way.
Last year, the Luton-born presenter made her acting stage debut in 2:22 A Ghost Story, and won Strictly Come Dancing in 2018 with her partner, Kevin Clifton, with whom she has a child.
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